Monday, 22 December 2014

2014 Christmas update

Merry Christmas everyone!

I just finished waaay to much baking and wrapping up presents whilst listening to Phantom of the Opera (perhaps unrelated...but it always reminds me of Christmas)
Christmas isn't just a day, as we all know, the celebrations for us start as early as Eric can find the 'all Christmas songs, all day' radio station.

We got a first good taste of a the winter in November but haven't had much snow since, so we are certainly dreaming of a white Christmas!

Summer was a fantastic adventure of cottaging, beaching, outside-all-the-time, and lots of friends and family fun.

I look back on 2014 as the year we closed the chapter in our lives of Babies and started preparing for the new adventure of a family with no babies and 3 'big' kids ready to take on the world!

Isaac learned how to ride a 2 wheeler this summer, as well as stared his first year of school in junior kindergarten.
We are so impressed with him already (as are his teachers, so they've told us!) in how he is reacting to this change and his ability to get along so well with his peers and is a leader in the classroom in giving new ideas, thoughts, questions, and shows lots of compassion to others.
Eric and I both really like his teachers and their approach to early learning, very hands on, play-based learning. They have 'studied' snails, ocean life, vehicles, and introduce the basics through the kids interest in the world around them. They have also been very receptive to our concerns and ideas and the school overall is community and family focused which is awesome.
Life at home has changed significantly as well with him being in school (he goes 5 days a week with 2 half days) I have found the time I have with him in the morning, after school, and weekends is a whole lot more pleasant than it once was, I have that bit of extra energy & patience (providing the other two have a quiet time!) to give to him. He enjoys being the OLDEST and the special privilege he has. Lately he has been impressing us with his excellent manners and choices to do the right thing and practice empathy. He has gotten really into lego and it's lots of fun spending that time building with him or reading longer books and other things, Eric is introducing him to board games:)

Rosalie turned 3 in September and is especially fond of all things princess-y and fairytale at the moment:) Playing pretend is her FAVOURITE thing to do, it's almost difficult to get her out of her little world sometimes when she needs to eat her dinner or respond to a question. Her favourite princess is usually Belle or Rapunzel, but depending on her clothing choice or circumstance it varies.
She won't let me do very much with her hair because she wants it either to look exactly like Elsa's (from 'Frozen') or keep it growing long like Rapunzel's. Any cute little buns or updos are out of the question, as is DARING to trim her bangs, so she is growing them out.
She still occasionally likes to draw, but doesn't quite as much anymore, she is very committed to this phase in her life! :) Rosalie is especially fond of going over to play with her neighbour Ziya who is also 3, the two of them used to not enjoy each others company at ALL but now have grown to be the BEST of friends, it's pretty cute.
Rosie likes helping me in the kitchen and playing 'puppy-and-owner', 'prince and princess', 'pet-dragon', and ALWAYS 'Ballroom'.
She and Oliver also have been spending more time together playing as well, which is nice to see, when Isaac is not home the two of them get along splendidly. Overall Rosie is our little peace-keeping darling, who polishes her halo daily, and when she forgets is quick to beg forgiveness and reconciliation.

Oliver turns 2 YEARS OLD on Christmas eve, he suddenly decided he was done with diapers and has been using the potty for a few weeks now, he still wears a pull-up at nighttime but this transition is happening way faster than I thought it would! BRING ON DIAPER FREE! I'M READY!
I've given away/thrown out all my cloth diapers so it is bittersweet, strange, and wonderful:) He has decided to grow up awfully fast though, he attempts anything Isaac does, sleeps in a big boy bed, and loves to run and wrestle and be goofy.
He's also recently re-discovered the magical word "NO!"and uses it at every opportune moment. He also started having legit tantrums which I haven't seen the likes of since Isaac was a tot.
Don't be fooled, Oliver still is a wee tot. He still loves to snuggle and sit on my lap or be carried whenever he can get away with it. (Especially when his 2nd cousin, Lena, is in the picture!!)
Oliver also loves to play 'superhero' with his big brother and is his little shadow, the two of THEM get along splendidly as well for the most part. They do have a special little bond and now that Oliver is a bit older and tougher Isaac is more interested in him.

Eric and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary this past May and are merrily enjoying our little nest and growing brood. We have such a wonderful community of family, friends and neighbours, and we are so, so, so blessed, I often stop just to say THANK YOU to God who has provided for us in so many ways even when we don't realize, sometimes I wonder how we manage each month, and time and time again we are provided for. There is always so much to be thankful for.

We joined the YMCA earlier this fall, partially for something to do during the impending winter and also to get the kids in swimming lessons, and it has proved to be a good move! (haha, pun.)
As much as I was skeptical about the whole working out stuff, I find it actually enjoyable to go and move and feel refreshed, there is something about making yourself go out and do it cuz you're there and you're paying for it that helps a heap!

Eric has gotten full time at work which means he is able to get holidays off now so we are looking forward to spending Christmas day together and starting and renewing traditions as a family.

There have been many sad & difficult things happening in the world and in our community this year so sometimes in this season it is hard to focus on peace, joy, and hope. However we remember that it is HOPE that we hold on to as followers of Christ, it is Christmas that we remember how and why Jesus came..."Chains shall he break/for the slave is our brother/and in His name/All oppression shall cease."
This is the hope we profess, that He who promised is FAITHFUL, while we wait for Christ's return we live out his kingdom in our lives. We bring it here NOW in whatever way we can.
Remember at Christmas that it is through us now that the world sees JUSTICE, LOVE, PEACE and HOPE.

Merry Christmas to you all and may the New Year bring you many glad tidings! Greater things are yet to come!

Love The Buckley's
Eric, Tessa, Isaac, Rosalie & Oliver





Tuesday, 11 November 2014

Fall Features

As you can see I've been busy this fall so not much time for updates, I've been meaning to write more but just haven't the time (not to mention my computer was broken for quite awhile there)

Our fall has been going very well! It goes without saying that it has been gorgeous weather which we have been making the most of. Today we had a 'neighbourhood leaf party' in which I raked up all the leaves in our yard and our neighbours jumped in them. Whoo!!
Enjoy a few photos of our life lately.












Thursday, 18 September 2014

Guess where we went?!

Our annual trip with the Rathwell family brought us to Ripley's Aquarium this year! Walking through a tunnel with fish everywhere you look has been on my bucket list since my pen-pal wrote to me about her experience when we were 8 years old. Dreams do come true!

Lunch at the mechanics!
Despite being delayed by a flat tire on the highway, and no jack which led us to calling a tow truck which led us to then driving to a mechanic to put on a new tire, only putting us an hour and a half or so behind, we had a fabulous time!
AND our dear old friend from our teen years, Pete, was able to join us!! It was so good to see him and catch up as much as we could despite mostly being pulled in three different directions at all times. (Sisters; Pete is a FANTASTIC third set of eyes, seriously; better than Eric and I put together, if you ever go sight-seeing in Toronto, look him up)

Also, needless to say, the kids favourite parts seemed to be the things that DON'T belong in the ocean; like the diver (Oliver was stone-still when the diver showed up, absolutely no facial expressions whatsoever, Isaac and Rosalie thought he was the best) the kids play center with a slide and submarine, and the moving elevator. Maybe everything seemed too surreal to take seriously.
I loved it. However for the price, I would probably go to the zoo next time to make a whole day of it with kids, and go to the aquarium on a nice date with Eric to actually sit and enjoy the calming waters and fishies. (or take a small baby, not 3 little walking kids who don't appreciate glowing jelly fish for more than 2 minutes)








Amazing, amazing creatures!
This guy was just hanging out on the very top of the tunnel, I put the picture sideways to show how scary looking he is! I don't think hollywood has ever had an original thought.









Tuesday, 2 September 2014

The Buckley's take on the school-world!

(The novel version...)
Isaac completed his first day of Junior Kindergarten today!
Although we will likely be taking him home for lunch, we decided today to let him go for the whole day as it would have thrown him off too much to bring him home then back again.

He has been very excited about school and as the day approached was talking about it regularly. The night before he went to bed right away with no fuss as he wanted to be sure he "had enough energy for tomorrow!" :)

We joined our neighbour's for the walk to school and Isaac and Silas (6) chattered the whole way toting their fancy new backpacks.
Once we got to the schoolyard however and the kids he knew ran off to their class group he sobered up dramatically and suddenly didn't want to go to school anymore.
He has two teachers, a man and a woman, who I got to meet and seem very lovely. They made an effort to greet Isaac but there was a LOT going on, which added to it being overwhelming I think. (Not to mention there was a little kid throwing a MASSIVE temper tantrum nearby) All the other kids in his class seemed sweet and most of them seemed used to the concept. I asked one little boy with a hat that said 'Legit' that I thought he looked super cool to which he responded smoothly "I know." And then I asked how old he was to which he replied sassily "Seven-TEEN."
Haha, he reminded me of my nephew, Josiah.

Eventually they went off in a line to the climbers to play before trumping off to the classroom, suddenly Isaac got super into it, (the idea if being first in the 'race' to the playground, maybe) and was good from there as I said goodbye and his teacher basically shooed me out of the yard. (Understandably!)

When he got home he was pretty snooty. His exact words were "I made terrible friends and it's a terrible school." As well as how boring it was. (Upon interviewing one of the older neighbour kids who were with us for a bit after school I found that they had to stay inside during recess due to thunderstorms and they started off the day with a school assembly which was understandably boring and long for a little guy)
At any rate by the time the day ended and it was just him and I after the other 2 went to bed it sounds like he likes his teachers and thought there was a lot of different things to do. Though he never told me specifically what, also that he met a kid named Alexander.


And he was sleeping about 5 minutes after I put him to bed.

On our side of things; Oliver and Rosalie had a 2 hour nap and it was So Incredibly Quiet around here.
The question of 'how are you doing, mama?" on my end is a tricky one, I feel a little guilty answering it, as to be honest it's almost a relief for me.
In a non-negative way, Isaac is a guy who lets you know when he is in the house. Because he's right there beside you the whole time. And when he is not bugging his younger siblings or asking for a snack or to watch a show (or lately asking if he can play with his neighbours) he is generally just wanting you to do something with him. Which is great, I love doing stuff with Isaac, but 12 hours of that every day can be a bit tiring. So it is definitely strange to have 6 hours of a very different atmosphere in the house.
On the other hand, time went sooo slowly, there were times I literally watched the clock tick. Our home is not the same without Isaac, he brings so much LIFE and LAUGHTER and EXCITEMENT, and I am so excited for him as he grows and desires to bring this life and excitement out of his home and to discover the world.
I pray that we can always be his HOME that he does miss and want to return to every day and finds rest, love and renewed faith & peace in who he is.

I'll keep those of you who want to continue hearing posted about the following days! Very exciting times for Isaac. I am feeling very optimistic about our decision to put him in JK.

Also on this day Rosalie celebrated her 3rd birthday, Eric and I dropped off Oliver at our friends house for a bit and took her out for 'a treat' although she wasn't feeling so well. She had a party yesterday so I think she was a bit sick of the whole birthday biz by today, and to everyone who said "Happy birthday!" to her she responded with "Happy birthday!" Adorable.

Each of my children are so different and unique in personality, oh grace be to Eric and I as we navigate our way through respecting and understanding them individually!!
I hope this video works, this is what Isaac learned today that he was very excited to teach to all of us

Friday, 8 August 2014

Beautiful things of the month...

campin' cousins
siblin' kisses
Grampa playing dolls with great-granddaughter
freshly picked bouquets
family picnics
fatherly love
friends are family
This birthday-boy:)